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The National Policy for Whole School Evaluation ( Government Gazette, No. 21539 of September 2000) has been implemented to enhance school effectiveness and provide quality assurance to the education system. Areas that will be evaluated are indicated in the document and included in the nine areas for evaluation are areas of school safety, security and discipline; learner achievement; parents and community. The policies, procedures and processes that ensure the safety of all children will be evaluated under school safety, security and discipline. At the same time, the spin-off from a secure environment will influence learner achievement and attitudes of parents and the community. 

  Thus, the policy and programme for bully prevention intervention plays a role in WSE and attributes to quality assurance and effectiveness of a school.

Policy and Programme formulation to prevent and control bullying in South African schools,

  1. supports the rights of every child

  2. provides support for all stakeholders

  3. creates a safe and secure learning environment

  4. adds to quality assurance (WSE)

What is bullying?

  Before one can actively get involved in policy formulation and support programme development, a clear understanding of what bullying is needs to be addressed. Extensive research has been conducted and the researchers have compiled the following definitions: 

  A student is being bullied or victimised when he or she is exposed, repeatedly and over time, to negative actions on the part of one or more students (Olweus, 1993). 

  Bullying is long standing violence, physical or psychological, conducted by an individual or a group and directed at an individual who is not able to defend himself (Roland, 1993). 

  Bullying is the wilful, conscious desire to hurt another and put him/her under stress (Tattum, 1993).

In a nutshell, bullying is a deliberate, conscious desire to hurt, threaten and frighten someone. Bullying hurts and it will keep hurting if not nipped in the bud. 

Three forms of bullying are:

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Physical bullying

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pushing

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tripping up  

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kicking  

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hitting  

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punching  

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pinching  

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biting  

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forcing others to do things that they don’t wish to do  

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taking or damaging others belongings  

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demanding money  

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silly pranks

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Verbal bullying

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teasing, mocking and taunting

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abusive comments about appearance

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verbal threats

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threatening and embarrassing gestures

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insulting family members, genders, race and religion  

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name calling

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writing nasty letters about someone      

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Psychological bullying   

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spreading nasty rumours

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deliberately excluding someone from activities  

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influencing/telling others to dislike someone

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making a fool of someone  

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trying to dominate a person  

  Bullying is not part of growing up and children will not grow out of it. It is not an overstated problem nor is it a rite of passage. Bullying is reality and it will not eventually stop if ignored. It needs immediate intervention regardless if it is rife in your school or not! May it be damage control or prevention intervention, it needs to be done as priority number 1, because if ignorance reins disaster is on your doorstep. 

Consequences of bullying

Bullying can impact on a number of parties. Those affected are the victims of bullying, the bully, family and friends, and the learning environment. 

Children who are bullied have to endure a great deal of misery and they often suffer from one or more of the following physical, emotional, social and educational consequences. 

Physical consequences

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headaches

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bedwetting

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loss of appetite

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poor posture

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stomach ailments

Emotional consequences

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depression

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suicidal

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anxious

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fearful

Social consequences

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isolated and lonely

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no friends

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difficulty mixing with others

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become very shy   

Educational consequences

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withdrawal from school activities

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afraid to ask questions

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cannot concentrate on work

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hide lack of understanding for fear of being teased

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underachieve so they don’t appear to be too clever

There are also telling consequences for the bully:

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Bullies often turn into anti-social adults.

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Bullies are more likely to abuse their children and spouses or partners

"What is done to children, they will do to society." (Karl Menninger – Quotes on children, 2001) 

Both the child being bullied and the bully need help. You need to be there for them! 

Intervention Prevention Model – Figure 2

For “bully-proofing your school”

 

 

As managers and leaders in the field of education, you have become familiar with a number of planning and implementation models. Using the basic framework of these models, I have adapted the diagram to assist school managers, school governing bodies and school management teams to effectively “bully-proof” their schools.

A School Bullying Policy 

(Adapted from a policy developed by Pridwin Preparatory School) 

A Policy on Bullying and Harassment 

To this end, we aim to establish a community in which everybody feels valued and safe, and where individual differences are appreciated, understood and accepted.  Every child has a right to enjoy their time at school.  This community does not tolerate bullying or harassment.  Respect for others is expected. 

Montrose aims to: 

Promote an atmosphere and ethos at the school of warm, loving and caring concern.

Promote in each child respect and empathy for others and the environment. 

At Montrose School Everyone Has Rights & Responsibilities 

Rights                                       Responsibilities 

To feel safe                               To respect yourself 

To learn and grow                      To respect others 

To be respected                        To use commonsense 

To be valued                             To support others 

To be different                           To show compassion and

                                                 Understanding 

We Do Not Tolerate Bullying 

It is your right and responsibility to report bullying, whether it happens to you or to someone else. 

What Is Bullying? 

Bullying is any behaviour intended to hurt, injure, threaten or frighten another person in such a way that the person feels that he cannot do anything about it.

Do You Bully?

Have You Been Bullied? 

Bullying comes in many forms, including:

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Calling hurtful or racist names

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Being picked on

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Deliberately punching, hitting, bumping

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Teasing

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Spreading rumours about someone

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Mocking

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Repeatedly “putting down” someone

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Threatening

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Deliberately ignoring and avoiding

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Taking or damaging property

Bullying 

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Is a miss-use of power

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Is uninvited aggressive words or action

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Is hurtful

What To Do If You Are Bullied 

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Tell the bully to stop.  State quite clearly that the behaviour is unwelcome and offensive.

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Seek help.  Talk about it to someone you trust.  There is nothing so awful that we can’t talk about it with someone.

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Report it to a member of staff, or a prefect.  The School does not tolerate bullying.  Feel confident that any incident can be resolved satisfactorily.

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What To Do If You Know Someone Is Being Bullied

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Care enough to do something about it, whether it affects you personally or not.

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Early intervention can defuse a situation before it gets out of hand.

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Report it to a member of staff, or a prefect.

To Prevent Bullying 

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Respect yourself and others

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Work to create a pleasant school environment for all.

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Learn to tolerate and accept individual differences.

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Support the school policy on bullying.

 

Support Programmes 

It is these programmes that make the bullying policy a living document. Support programmes are based on the schools specific needs and resources available. These programmes need to be age appropriate and content needs to be relevant to the situations and circumstances. The success of these support programmes does not need money, it needs initiative, drive and passion.

Each educator has been educated as to what a bully is and how to deal with them.

A procedure needs to be followed:

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the bullied child reports to the educator.

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Educator must investigate the incident thoroughly.

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An incident report is sent through to the HOD Guidance.

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The bully and the bullied child will be counselled by the HOD.

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The bully will receive a yellow letter which means a 1 hour detention will be held.

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The parent is informed of the incident as he / she has to sign and return the reply slip on the yellow letter.

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If a further incident occurs, a red letter is sent home.

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This is a two hour detention.

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If the behaviour does not improve, it will be seen as a Category C misdemeanor as stated in the Code of Conduct.

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The parent will be called in for a meeting to discuss counselling options as continued bullying will not be tolerated at Montrose.

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Parents are requested to sign a pledge which supports the school's bullying policy and should understand the consequences.

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All parents should make themselves aware of the policy on "what to do if your child is involved in a bullying incident" OR if "your child is accused of bullying".

Support programmes can take the following forms: 

o       Buddy system/Circle of Friends

o       Assertiveness training

o       Life skills development and curriculum activities

o       Peer mediation

o       Counselling

o       Parent circles and workshops

o       Anti-bullying campaign

o       Bullying support team           (Squelch et al, 2002) 

“Our ultimate aim is to raise children who will neither be bullied – nor accept being bullied” (Sue Berne, 1996). 

Recommendations 

1.      As bullying is part of everyday life in schools today, policy and support programme development and implementation is imperative. If you have not yet formulated a policy on bullying, do so as soon as possible and don’t wait for something to happen first.

2.      Engage all stakeholders of the school in your anti-bullying campaign. Teamwork is the name of the game!

3.      To Ignore bullying is to approve bullying and this is not conducive to creating a warm, safe and secure environment for your learners. You need to strengthen the confidence of your parent body and implement strategies that will prevent bullying and create a safe haven in your school. 

Conclusion 

Bullying is in schools and it is something that we need to be concerned about. Heads of School’s and Governor’s need to take bullying and children’s rights seriously by adopting a strong anti-bullying policy that provides the springboard for a whole range of strategies aimed at reducing bullying in schools and providing a safe and secure learning environment. 

It is our responsibility and we need to be proactive in policy and support programme formulation and implementation. This will ensure that bullying is minimised and a more confident and self-assured youth is developed for the future of our country.

References 

1.      Berne,S.1996. Bully-proof your child. Melbourne: Lothian Books. 

2.      Colorosso,B. 2002. The bully, the bullied, and the bystander: Breaking the cycle of violence. Harper Collins Canada Ltd. 

3.      Davis,S. 2001. www.stopbullyingnow.com/interven.htm 

4.      Olweus,D. 1993. Bullying at school. What we know and we can do. Oxford: Blackwell Publishers. 

5.      Roland,E. 1993. Bullying: a developing tradition of research and management, in D Tattum (ed) Understanding and managing bullying. Oxford: Heineman School Management.

6.   SMIT and CRONJE. 1992. Management Principles: A Contemporary South  African Edition. Juta&Co Ltd. 

7.      Squelch et al. 2002. A teacher’s and ParentGuide to Bullying. Johannesburg: Department of educational Sciences, RAU. 

8.      Tattum, D. 1993. Understanding and managing bullying. Oxford: Heineman School Management. 

9.      Other websites: 

www.bullybeware.com

www.bullying.co.uk

      www.antibullying.net

http://www.homestead.com/Fortress_of_infinitude/Fi’s_Quotes_on_ Children.html

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